Most of
what I’ve posted below came from a friend who emailed me a few weeks ago. I’ve
changed a few words here and there, changed the phrasing a bit in some places;
but what he expressed matched my thoughts so exactly that I haven’t had to
change much.
The Novus Ordo is, as Fr. Z has gently opined, the true
"Mass for Children", while the Extraordinary Form is the true
"Mass for Adults." The Novus Ordo can only take you so far. It may be
capable of inspiring one to growth in the spiritual life, but it isn't capable
of sustaining or developing spiritual maturity for the long haul. Once the
limits are reached, there's no place else to go without abandoning the
liturgical form from which all that is possible has been drunk.
The critical point beyond which it is impossible to grow without "changing forms" is the awareness that the Mass is the sacrifice of Calvary made present in an un-bloody form. A valid Mass in any form is always the sacrifice of Calvary, but that it's not really understood as such is evidenced by the way people respond to this profound truth (including the clergy).

To anyone with real spiritual maturity, Mass in a typical
Catholic parish is embarrassing. And I think many people do have some spiritual
maturity, and that deep down they know they should be embarrassed. Just for
starters, I’m embarrassed by an altar decorated like this:
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Yes, there really is an altar there. |
We’re not at a petting zoo. And we're not at a garden party
with friends, at the “table of the Lord”. We're at the foot of the Cross, and Jesus is being offered in sacrifice.
Can we really see Our Blessed Mother hugging everyone, welcoming them to
Calvary, and leading them in camp fire songs? "Thank you for coming! Hope
you all had a good time! We MUST do this again! Maybe next week?”
Once this insight is grasped – the realization that this is Calvary – one has arrived at a point beyond which the Novus Ordo cannot go. All you can do is "change" the Novus Ordo to accommodate the growth of the faithful: you can begin to move towards the Latin version of the Novus Ordo; return to ad orientem worship; introduce the Gregorian chant propers. Once you’ve made these “changes”, you arrive at a point that...well, the extraordinary form already does this, and its durability has proven itself for centuries.
One can, of course, start with the extraordinary form of the Mass, teaching it to
children from the very beginning, as we see in EF Mass communities such as FSSP
parishes. Children nurtured in this liturgical form and its spirituality don’t
outgrow it, and even at a young age know enough to be embarrassed when they are
first exposed to the Novus Ordo. A friend whose children were raised on the EF
Mass told me that she and her family had to attend a Novus Ordo Mass for some
reason; afterwards, her children wanted to know whether that was really
Catholic and whether they had really satisfied their Sunday obligation!
When I hear people rave about the NO Mass and whine about how they just don’t
understand the Latin (look at the booklet for heaven’s sake!), and Gregorian
chant seems esoteric and too hard for anyone to sing (so listen), I want to say, "Someday I hope you
The EF Mass has enough depth that one can never exhaust it. The Novus Ordo, by comparison, is childish and demands that one outgrow it if one aspires to spiritual maturity.
The evidence is in. The dots are able to be connected. We have centuries of evidence that the EF Mass “works”, and the collapse of the Novus Ordo is inevitable. There's just no “there” there. The verdict is in. The liturgical experiment that is the Novus Ordo has failed spectacularly. Sure, there are communities here and there that are growing towards spiritual maturity in spite of the Novus Ordo, but, if they continue to grow, and if they finally see what the Mass is, they won't be able to continue as they are. The EF Mass is the only option left. For those who have already figured this out, why waste time treading water where they are?
But there are few options here in Eastern Oregon. The liturgical landscape is a vast wasteland. And, sadly, no one really seems to care.
So...sometimes...I...just...weep.
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